The conversation came up last night at dinner with a friend of mine: What do we want in life? Is it money, possessions, family, undying love or a little bit of everything?Our talk started about work -- my friend loves what they do but really hate where they work. And she said she would take 10 grand less a year to work where she liked, and I agreed.

Then I raised the subject up a notch, asking what would the whole package be for people. I said I wanted to love my job, have family around, have a great girl and a medium income with good health and I would be in heaven.

She said less of love and just family, a great career and be able to laugh every day.

So, today I put up five different ideas for you to choose from. Be truthful to yourself and vote honestly.