Where to Break Up in East Texas (So It Hurts a Little Less)

(KNUE-FM) When two people start dating, they usually expect it to last, or at least hope it will. Unfortunately, life doesn't always work out that way, as many of us know. Relationships fail for many reasons. From serious issues to "they chew too loudly and I can't with that."

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And when it's time to say goodbye, the where can matter almost as much as the how.

Why the Backdrop of a Breakup Hits Us So Hard

Hey, I've been there. I've had my fair share of breakups, both as the initiator and on the receiving end. I once ended a relationship on a boat at sunset. Sounds too romantic for a breakup, right? No, not quite.

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We were there for a business event, but the lovely water and the "golden hour" glow of sunset gave me the sense that now was the time to say what had to be said in a calm setting. Was it painful? Sure. But when it finished, we sat in silence, friends, and just watched the sun go down. Rather poetic, actually.

My Best and Worst Breakup Locations (Rated by Emotional Damage)

To be clear, I wasn't always "emotionally mature." One time, I found out a boyfriend had been enjoying extracurricular adventures, and I walked right up to him and slapped him across the face. I'm not proud of that, though I know some think I should be.

I also recall a time when I was broken up with after a rather serious committed relationship. I won't delve into what absurdity happened before the actual breakup, as I may save that for a future book. (JK...sort of.)

Scenic vs. Chaotic: How the Setting Shapes the Moment

Anyway, we were in a tropical setting, literally sitting by the ocean one evening, when I was told that they didn't feel "lightning in a bottle." Cool, cool. I won't say what else they told me (cuz, future book, JK...sort of). But anyway. It was over, and it was definitely, definitely, definitely for the best.

It was a strange feeling, but at least I had the beautiful ocean to look at while talking to my sister on the phone, telling her what had happened. Meanwhile, I was surrounded by a gazillion smiling strangers who were actually enjoying their vacations. And that made me a little bit happier.

The point is, where we go to break up with someone or be broken up with can make a difference.

East Texas Spots That Make Breakups Softer, Calmer, and Less Awkward

So, listen, if you're unable to float down a river and watch a sunset or end things while gazing at the Pacific, that's okay. We have several places in East Texas that could help soften the blow of the breakup, at least somewhat. Maybe.

Let's take a look:

How to End Things Without Walmart-Level Drama

Whether you’re the one giving or receiving the breakup speech, a good backdrop can help keep things civil. Who knows, you might even walk away with your dignity and a nice memory.