We’ve all seen amazing foul ball catches from fans in the stands. But the guy in this video is so determined to catch a wayward ball, he forgets that he’s holding his daughter. Whoops!

Before you judge this man, put yourself in his shoes. When a foul ball is coming your way, you have mere seconds to react. That situation is so clutch, your reptilian brain totally takes over. In that moment, your commitment to hustle for that ball becomes more important than what it means to be a husband, more important than what it means to be a father.

And as soon as that moment has passed, you will regret completely what you just did. Because you’re sleeping on the couch for the rest of the week at the very least.

Watch what happens when a father chooses a foul ball over his precious daughter.